Feeling Guilty After Your Parent Dies: The Things You Wish You Had Said
Guilt after the death of a parent is one of the most common parts of grief, and most of it is really regret: wishing things had gone differently, judged with information you didn't have at the time. You can't redo the past, but you can still say what went unsaid, and the guilt usually loosens when it's spoken out loud instead of replayed alone at night.